1. Stop the habit of complaint. That's a side of unhappiness. Stop complaining. See that you are better than you think you are.
2. Stop thinking about your liabilities. You are only human, everyone has liabilities. Think of your assets: your courage, your compassion, your will to succeed.
3. Stop distrusting yourself. If you don't believe in yourself, why should anyone else believe in you?
4. Strip-off your mask. Throw away your colored glasses, don't believe make-believe. Be yourself, it's so much easier. Don't waste your time pretending and trying to be someone else.
5. Stop ridiculing your own weaknesses. You are not perfect, it is true, but who is? If you were perfect, anyway, chances are nobody would like to know you. You'd make other feel inferior. Don't let the forces of unhappiness trap you. Don't give up your freedom. You were once a little baby. God gave you life on this earth--not to be unhappy! God gave you life so you could fulfill your purpose, so that you could affirm your individuality, so that you could assert your identity.